Going over a year is usually quite fun for me. There are usually a few key things worth going into, other things can be glossed over and plans can be discussed for what is to come in the next year. This is pretty much what I did when I wrote a blog post for 2016 – a year I also proclaimed an outlier. I’m noticing a trend…
With 2017, it’s a bit more tricky. I learned so much, that I feel like I need to write about everything, just so I can remember it all when I come back to this post in the future. So, this long post is really more for me. I won’t blame you if it is too boring to get through.
It is intended to be a way for me to clarify my mind by writing and more importantly, a way to read it again one day and see if I learned anything in the long run.
The Estonian Presidency of the Council of the European Union
In the beginning of January, I didn’t really know what a Presidency is. I knew however, that my part in it would be small, so I imagined I would pick it up in due time. Things changed when one of my dear collages suddenly left the ministry and I was offered a new position. This also meant a bigger part in the Presidency team.
I was excited but after getting a first taste of the amount of work and catching up I needed to do, I started to get a bit scared. Fortunately, there was not really much time to get hooked up in that as things were fast unfolding.
My part was to help organize a conference on Nature-based Solutions together with Tallinn University. I was lucky to have really good people around me, so everything turned out well in the end (of October) but I have to admit that much of the time I felt I was building a house of straw and constantly fearing for a gust of wind. In retrospect, this was mostly my own mind playing tricks.
I find the Presidency really hard to describe. The work that many amazing people did is still a bit difficult to comprehend. There were so many things, so many events, so many problems. However, pretty much everyone I met was helpful, professional and understanding and everything came together because of it.
The main thing I learned from it was to trust the process – trust the people, trust the plans and stay in the flow. Plan well, nudge things here and there and watch everything unfold. At the time, I was way too stressed about the little things that rarely matter.
Sometimes you need to sweat the small stuff (as I learned from the excellent Chris Hadfield book “An Astronaut’s Guide to Life on Earth”) but often, details don’t matter as much as the big picture. At least when you are on Earth.
As things were getting more stressful at work, I started doing more and more things outside of it to balance my life. The podcast we had started in 2016 had taken off and we were hearing from more and more fans. By June we felt confident enough to do a live show in Von Krahl to celebrate our one year birthday. Feeling a bit cocky, we decided to invite Jarek Kasar to be on stage with us and give a concert afterwards. The crazy part was, he actually said yes!
As the day approached, we were getting a bit antsy. We didn’t know, if anyone will even show up. Granted, we were only doing an audio recording so the listeners would not see the empty hall but we’d still feel like a couple of boobs if the whole thing failed (is this a sexist phrase to use? I hope not).
Luckily the worries were for naught as the hall filled with people, Jim gave me my first ever shot of Tequila on stage, Jarek was funny and talented (this was not a surprise) and everyone enjoyed themselves.
We also had a bit of a secret while on stage – Raadio 2 had approached us to see if our podcast could work as a radio show. We didn’t know at the time how our pilot had fared with the management but by the end of the summer, the decision was in – starting in September, we’d be doing a radio show.
Like with everything in life, the decision came with its ups and downs. However, after a year of us talking in my living room, a change was needed. Thanks to the increase in discipline the radio brought, I feel that we have gotten better at what we do – we try to think things through more and actually get somewhere with our arguments. It has also helped us be much more consistent and get some wonderful guests on.
Developing my skills in taking photos has been a great support throughout the year. While still stressful at times, it stands in contrast to the work I usually do and acts as an important creative outlet.
I really wanted to take my photography to the next level in 2017 and while I am not convinced I achieved this, I did grow a lot. I have started finding more consistency and intent in my pictures. Much like I learned to trust the process in my work at the ministry, I have learned to trust the process at each photo shoot.
I try to go in to each shoot with less rather than more, expecting each model and situation to inspire me then and there. I have seen that when I go in with a very clear idea of what I want to get, I am more often disappointed.
I took a lot of pictures in 2017, mostly focusing on people. Pictures of couples, families, people working and performing, important events and intimate situations. I don’t see growth with each new set of images any more but I do see a difference in the images I took in the beginning of the year and now. They are getting better, slowly but surely.
I also finally replaced my trusty Sony NEX 5N camera, that I have used since the spring of 2012. I felt it was starting to hold me back and so am very happy with my new Sony a6300.
While it was hard to find much energy and time to be very prolific in my writing this year, I still contribute to Geenius and am very happy they keep me around as the people there are all really amazing.
I decided to count how many articles I wrote in 2017 and the number turned out to be somewhere around 33 (I may have forgot some). While not super impressive, I had made a new years resolution at the beginning of the year, that I would write at least two articles per month for Geenius. Averaging it out, I did better than expected.
I also got another really cool opportunity to hone my writing skills. A book is being put together about Kalamaja and in a wonderful turn of events, I will have a (small) part to play in the writing of that. It makes me especially happy as this is something I am doing together with my partner Eva.
It is still a bit early to go into details but I will surely let everyone know about it as time goes on.
All of this might sound like a huge unwarranted pat on my own back but in all honesty, I just did my job(s). A lot of the things that made this year so interesting were due to chance. I worked hard to make sure things went well but it was more chaos than a real plan. At times I felt I had no control. Things were moving forward and I felt I was always a few steps behind, never really catching up.
Most of what I had planned for 2017 did not happen. A lot of things had to take a back seat. It was hard to take care of my physical and mental health at times, relationships deteriorated and some of the effects of this will likely have a negative effect on me in the future. It meant less time together with family and friends, weight gain and a lot of self doubt.
Many things were left undone and I was also a bad supervisor for a student – a very painful but important lesson and something I will undoubtedly do better in the future.
The intense workload made me see all the things that I still lack – the ability to focus more deeply, manage people efficiently and let go of things not in my control.
So, now what?
For me, 2018 will be the year of self-improvement. I won’t make any specific resolutions but when making decisions and plans in the next year, I will remember this theme and adjust my actions accordingly. I am very much drawn to the idea of yearly themes as CGP Grey has talked about numerous times, so it is worth a shot.
I plan to spend more time with those close to me and try to lessen the amount of distractions in my life. Social media takes a lot of focus away from my life and lately I have started to feel it pull me too hard. I will need to find ways to change that. Not everything can be fixed but I can learn from my mistakes and try to avoid them in the future.
I have also started compiling a list of books that can help me learn how to do things better and already read a few of them. I started with “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” by Mark Manson and am now reading “Deep Work” by Cal Newport. I am also very interested in design thinking so I’ll be reading a few books on that.
I felt kind of lost in November and early December this year but I feel that I have made peace with a lot of the baggage I gathered throughout everything. I can finally feel excited about what the new year will bring – both good and bad.
I want to learn new skills and be a bit more adventurous. Maybe I’ll finally sew myself a pair of golden pants? We’ll see…
I’ll also start writing in my blog again as this has been nice.